Hey girl hey! If you’re struggling to find “The One,” dating expert Monique Kelley appeared on Friday’s episode of “The Jennifer Hudson Show” to share some helpful tips and words of wisdom on how to find a partner, and how to maintain a healthy relationship.

Kelley is the creator of the blog “Confessions of a Serial Dater in LA.” that she started after becoming a divorce´ to write about the struggles of getting back on the dating scene.

“I’ve done the legwork so you don’t have to make the same mistakes,” she shared with J-Hud and the audience.

“Through my pain, I found my purpose,” she added.

Check out her tips on finding love… and yes girl we have to leave the house……