I fell in love with Boris Kodjoe and Nicole Ari Parker when they portrayed Damon and Teri on Soul Food back in the day. Then they got married and started a family in real life and I became an even bigger fan.

If this is your person, you can’t give up!

Well Boris was on the Jennifer Hudson Show Tuesday where he shared with J-Hud the secret to his and Nicole’s 19 year marriage.

Check it out below: